My Favourite Recommendations

I regularly get asked for recommendations for educational resources, tools, and toys. I love to share information, so below you will find some of my favourite books and podcasts. Pleasure exploration devices (aka toys) can also bring a ton of novelty and excitement into your solo and/or partnered sex life. They can be a great way to spice up your sex life, create more accessible or affirming exploration of your body, and they can be a fantastic tool to intensify sensation and pleasure.

That said, all bodies are unique, and pleasure is such a personal experience, so I'm very picky with what products I recommend. What feels good for me and my body may not feel good for you. Erotic devices can also be quite expensive, and I don't want you to waste your money! So I have very thoughtfully curated this list of resources and products because I honestly trust and believe in them and have used them myself, and they have benefited my clients and are backed by strong support.

I hope these recommendations assist in your journey to a more pleasure-filled life…

Full disclosure: Some of the links in this article may be affiliate links, which means I receive a small commission (at NO additional cost to you) if you decide to purchase something. While I may receive affiliate compensation for promoting some of these items, this absolutely does not drive my decision as to whether or not to recommend a product.

BOOKS

Podcasts

Book cover for 'Come As You Are' by Dr. Emily Nagoski, with illustrations of personal items like a bra, a flashlight, and a vibrator on a colorful background.
Close-up of a smiling woman with long brown hair, sitting with her hand on her face, on a promotional cover for 'Sex w/ Emily' podcast.
Podcast cover featuring a smiling woman with long hair and a man whispering to her ear, with text 'Pillow Talks with Vanessa & Xander' on a lavender background.
Cover image of a podcast titled 'The Trouble with Sex' with Dr. Tammy Nelson, showing a woman with blonde wavy hair smiling against a teal background.
A black silhouette of a fist gripping a wrench, with the text 'Speaking of Sex' written around it.

Products

Personal Lubricants

Black can of Pjur Original silicone personal lubricant with a white swirl design, labeled as 100 mL, made in Germany.
Pjur Woman Nude personal lubricant bottle, white with green and yellow details, 100 milliliters, made in Germany.

Pjur Original Lube

My tried and true favourite lube. I always go back to Pjur!

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Pjur Water-Based Lube

My favourite lube in a toy-compatible water-based formula.

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A clear bottle of Pjur Infinity silicone-based personal lubricant with a silver cap, placed in front of a light blue and purple box.
A 50mL bottle of pjur Infinity water-based personal lubricant with silver cap and yellow label, set against a geometric background with gray, blue, and beige shapes.

Pjur Infinity Lube

When only the best will do! This premium silicone-based lube will be the perfect treat for those extra special occasions.

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Pjur Infinity Water-Based Lube

When only the best will do! This premium water-based lube is long lasting and comes in a beautiful glass jar.

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Pleasure Exploration Devices

Two hands holding stacking gallery of smooth, pastel-colored stone-like objects, one with four connected clear spheres and the other with a few larger flat, rounded pieces.
A hand holding a green apple with a small bite taken out of it, against an orange background, with a text overlay reading 'Shallow entry (optional) for comfort and control'.

Ohnut Depth Limiting Rings

Clinician-designed tool to reduce pain during sex

Learn more + purchase (use code STRETCHY for 15% off)

Kiwi Vibrating Entry Massager

Clinician-designed tool to reduce pain during sex

Learn more + purchase (use code WOOHOO for 20% off)

A hand holding a white massage gun with blue accents and control buttons
Person holding a white and blue magic wand device with buttons labeled M and 1, 2.

Magic Wand Rechargeable Extra Powerful Cordless Vibrator

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Magic Wand Micro Rechargeable Wand Massager

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Light blue wand with rotating head and control button.

Unbound Babes “Ollie” Waterproof Wand Vibrator

This high-powered external wand vibrator provides a deep rumbly sensation (features 10 speeds and patterns).

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Furniture + Position Enhancers

Lovehoney Elevate Sex Position Enhancer Wedge

Foam wedge designed to help you hold a variety of positions for longer. Great for people with lower mobility or anyone wanting to enhance their sex play!

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Liberator Sex Position Wedge Ramp Combo

Set of 2 angled pillows for better positions, comfortable support and deeper penetration.

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Sportsheets Pivot Protector Waterproof Blanket

This super-soft, absorbant blanket protects your bedding, furniture, and other surfaces from lube, fluids, and other liquids.

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A white bottle labeled 'FUCK WATER' with a black cap, containing water-based lubricant.
A clear glass spray bottle labeled "uber lube" with a white spray nozzle.

FuckWater Hybrid

This lube is water-based with premium silicone added to make it longer lasting and less sticky

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Überlube

Another fantastic, non-sticky silicone-based lube.

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online courses + Apps

Paired

An app that provides couples with daily conversation starters and fun games designed to deepen your connection

Use this link for a 30 day free trial and 20% off the price of Paired

Beducated 

Pleasure-based sex education and online courses

Use this link to get 15% off your subscription

FLOWN

This virtual body-doubling app provides live peer and facilitated co-working sessions, plus breathwork, journaling, and meditation sessions

Use this link for a 30 day free trial and 20% discount on a monthly or annual FLOWN subscription

A man and a girl sitting on a bed together, looking at a laptop.
Purple square with black skateboard with a broken heart design in the center.
A quote reading, "It feels genuinely engaging. There’s no judgment or shame, just straight up information." is displayed at the top of the image. Below is a photo of a woman with dark brown hair and bangs, smiling and looking to the side, in a warm indoor lighting setting. The bottom of the image has the text "OMGYES" in bold.
Cover image for an online course titled 'Erotic Touch Mastery' from PleasureMechanics.com, featuring two pink calla lilies against a black background.

OMGYES

Explore new techniques with super-honest videos, animations & how-to’s. Based on findings from the largest-ever research study into women’s pleasure.

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The Pleasure Mechanics 

Erotic touch online courses

Use the code EXPLORE for 20% off any course or click the following link