
My Favourite Recommendations
I regularly get asked for recommendations for educational resources, tools, and toys. I love to share information, so below you will find some of my favourite books and podcasts. Pleasure exploration devices (aka toys) can also bring a ton of novelty and excitement into your solo and/or partnered sex life. They can be a great way to spice up your sex life, create more accessible or affirming exploration of your body, and they can be a fantastic tool to intensify sensation and pleasure.
That said, all bodies are unique, and pleasure is such a personal experience, so I'm very picky with what products I recommend. What feels good for me and my body may not feel good for you. Erotic devices can also be quite expensive, and I don't want you to waste your money! So I have very thoughtfully curated this list of resources and products because I honestly trust and believe in them and have used them myself, and they have benefited my clients and are backed by strong support.
I hope these recommendations assist in your journey to a more pleasure-filled life…
Full disclosure: Some of the links in this article may be affiliate links, which means I receive a small commission (at NO additional cost to you) if you decide to purchase something. While I may receive affiliate compensation for promoting some of these items, this absolutely does not drive my decision as to whether or not to recommend a product.
BOOKS
Podcasts
Products
Personal Lubricants
Pjur Water-Based Lube
My favourite lube in a toy-compatible water-based formula.
Pjur Infinity Lube
When only the best will do! This premium silicone-based lube will be the perfect treat for those extra special occasions.
Pjur Infinity Water-Based Lube
When only the best will do! This premium water-based lube is long lasting and comes in a beautiful glass jar.
Pleasure Exploration Devices
Ohnut Depth Limiting Rings
Clinician-designed tool to reduce pain during sex
Learn more + purchase (use code STRETCHY for 15% off)
Kiwi Vibrating Entry Massager
Clinician-designed tool to reduce pain during sex
Learn more + purchase (use code WOOHOO for 20% off)
Magic Wand Rechargeable Extra Powerful Cordless Vibrator
Magic Wand Micro Rechargeable Wand Massager
Unbound Babes “Ollie” Waterproof Wand Vibrator
This high-powered external wand vibrator provides a deep rumbly sensation (features 10 speeds and patterns).
Furniture + Position Enhancers
Lovehoney Elevate Sex Position Enhancer Wedge
Foam wedge designed to help you hold a variety of positions for longer. Great for people with lower mobility or anyone wanting to enhance their sex play!
Liberator Sex Position Wedge Ramp Combo
Set of 2 angled pillows for better positions, comfortable support and deeper penetration.
Sportsheets Pivot Protector Waterproof Blanket
This super-soft, absorbant blanket protects your bedding, furniture, and other surfaces from lube, fluids, and other liquids.
FuckWater Hybrid
This lube is water-based with premium silicone added to make it longer lasting and less sticky
online courses + Apps
Paired
An app that provides couples with daily conversation starters and fun games designed to deepen your connection
Beducated
Pleasure-based sex education and online courses
OMGYES
Explore new techniques with super-honest videos, animations & how-to’s. Based on findings from the largest-ever research study into women’s pleasure.
The Pleasure Mechanics
Erotic touch online courses
Use the code EXPLORE for 20% off any course or click the following link