My Favourite Recommendations

I regularly get asked for recommendations for educational resources, tools, and toys. I love to share information, so below you will find some of my favourite books and podcasts. Pleasure exploration devices (aka toys) can also bring a ton of novelty and excitement into your solo and/or partnered sex life. They can be a great way to spice up your sex life, create more accessible or affirming exploration of your body, and they can be a fantastic tool to intensify sensation and pleasure.

That said, all bodies are unique, and pleasure is such a personal experience, so I'm very picky with what products I recommend. What feels good for me and my body may not feel good for you. Erotic devices can also be quite expensive, and I don't want you to waste your money! So I have very thoughtfully curated this list of resources and products because I honestly trust and believe in them and have used them myself, and they have benefited my clients and are backed by strong support.

I hope these recommendations assist in your journey to a more pleasure-filled life…

Full disclosure: Some of the links in this article may be affiliate links, which means I receive a small commission (at NO additional cost to you) if you decide to purchase something. While I may receive affiliate compensation for promoting some of these items, this absolutely does not drive my decision as to whether or not to recommend a product.

BOOKS

Podcasts

Products

Personal Lubricants

Pjur Original Lube

My tried and true favourite lube. I always go back to Pjur!

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Pjur Water-Based Lube

My favourite lube in a toy-compatible water-based formula.

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Pjur Infinity Lube

When only the best will do! This premium silicone-based lube will be the perfect treat for those extra special occasions.

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Pjur Infinity Water-Based Lube

When only the best will do! This premium water-based lube is long lasting and comes in a beautiful glass jar.

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Pleasure Exploration Devices

Ohnut Depth Limiting Rings

Clinician-designed tool to reduce pain during sex

Learn more + purchase (use code STRETCHY for 15% off)

Kiwi Vibrating Entry Massager

Clinician-designed tool to reduce pain during sex

Learn more + purchase (use code WOOHOO for 20% off)

Magic Wand Rechargeable Extra Powerful Cordless Vibrator

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Magic Wand Micro Rechargeable Wand Massager

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Unbound Babes “Ollie” Waterproof Wand Vibrator

This high-powered external wand vibrator provides a deep rumbly sensation (features 10 speeds and patterns).

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Furniture + Position Enhancers

Lovehoney Elevate Sex Position Enhancer Wedge

Foam wedge designed to help you hold a variety of positions for longer. Great for people with lower mobility or anyone wanting to enhance their sex play!

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Liberator Sex Position Wedge Ramp Combo

Set of 2 angled pillows for better positions, comfortable support and deeper penetration.

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Sportsheets Pivot Protector Waterproof Blanket

This super-soft, absorbant blanket protects your bedding, furniture, and other surfaces from lube, fluids, and other liquids.

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FuckWater Hybrid

This lube is water-based with premium silicone added to make it longer lasting and less sticky

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Überlube

Another fantastic, non-sticky silicone-based lube.

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online courses + Apps

Paired

An app that provides couples with daily conversation starters and fun games designed to deepen your connection

Use this link for a 30 day free trial and 20% off the price of Paired

Beducated 

Pleasure-based sex education and online courses

Use this link to get 15% off your subscription

FLOWN

This virtual body-doubling app provides live peer and facilitated co-working sessions, plus breathwork, journaling, and meditation sessions

Use this link for a 30 day free trial and 20% discount on a monthly or annual FLOWN subscription

OMGYES

Explore new techniques with super-honest videos, animations & how-to’s. Based on findings from the largest-ever research study into women’s pleasure.

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The Pleasure Mechanics 

Erotic touch online courses

Use the code EXPLORE for 20% off any course or click the following link