
My Favourite Recommendations
I regularly get asked for recommendations for educational resources, tools, and toys. I love to share information, so below you will find some of my favourite books and podcasts. Pleasure devices (aka toys) can also bring a ton of pleasure and excitement into your solo and/or partnered sex life. They can be a great way to spice up your sex life, create more accessible or affirming exploration of your body, and they can be a fantastic tool to intensify sensation and pleasure.
But all bodies are unique and pleasure is such a personal experience, so I'm very picky with what products I recommend. What feels good for me, may not feel good for you. Plus, pleasure devices can be SUPER expensive and I don't want you to waste your money!
So I have very thoughtfully curated this list of resources and products because I honestly trust and believe in them, have used them myself, or the resource / product is backed by strong support. I hope these recommendations assist in your journey to a more pleasure-filled life…
Full disclosure: Some of the links in this article may be affiliate links, which means I receive a small commission (at NO additional cost to you) if you decide to purchase something. While we receive affiliate compensation for promoting some of these items, this absolutely does not drive my decision as to whether or not to recommend a product.
BOOKS
Podcasts
Products
Personal Lubricants
Pjur Water-Based Lube
My favourite lube in a toy-compatible water-based formula.
Pjur Infinity Lube
When only the best will do! This premium silicone-based lube will be the perfect treat for those extra special occasions.
Pjur Infinity Water-Based Lube
When only the best will do! This premium water-based lube is long lasting and comes in a beautiful glass jar.
Pleasure Exploration Devices
Ohnut Depth Limiting Rings
Clinician-designed tool to reduce pain during sex
Learn more + purchase (use code STRETCHY for 15% off)
Kiwi Vibrating Entry Massager
Clinician-designed tool to reduce pain during sex
Learn more + purchase (use code WOOHOO for 20% off)
Magic Wand Rechargeable Extra Powerful Cordless Vibrator
Magic Wand Micro Rechargeable Wand Massager
Unbound Babes “Ollie” Waterproof Wand Vibrator
This high-powered external wand vibrator provides a deep rumbly sensation (features 10 speeds and patterns).
Furniture + Position Enhancers
Lovehoney Elevate Sex Position Enhancer Wedge
Foam wedge designed to help you hold a variety of positions for longer. Great for people with lower mobility or anyone wanting to enhance their sex play!
Liberator Sex Position Wedge Ramp Combo
Set of 2 angled pillows for better positions, comfortable support and deeper penetration.
Sportsheets Pivot Protector Waterproof Blanket
This super-soft, absorbant blanket protects your bedding, furniture, and other surfaces from lube, fluids, and other liquids.
FuckWater Hybrid
This lube is water-based with premium silicone added to make it longer lasting and less sticky
online courses + Apps
Paired
An app that provides couples with daily conversation starters and fun games designed to deepen your connection
Beducated
Pleasure-based sex education and online courses
OMGYES
Explore new techniques with super-honest videos, animations & how-to’s. Based on findings from the largest-ever research study into women’s pleasure.
The Pleasure Mechanics
Erotic touch online courses
Use the code EXPLORE for 20% off any course or click the following link